tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post6901212883663698816..comments2023-10-22T01:38:07.054-07:00Comments on Parent Effectiveness Training: The Blog: I Am Adam Lanza’s TherapistGordon Training Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00826019243464690334noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-73600557373747668682014-06-09T04:28:12.165-07:002014-06-09T04:28:12.165-07:00Interesting article. It is practically impossible ...Interesting article. It is practically impossible for children to get the love and care they need with both parents working full time. They are not automatons, but are human beings. It really comes down to our societal attitudes to what should constitute a full time job. Perhaps we should rethink this, and allow parents more time with their children, without sacrifice of pay. I think everyone Valemont Viewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04981213172084890991noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-9984749466141354432013-11-19T12:34:49.175-08:002013-11-19T12:34:49.175-08:00We hear that you're upset that the article see...We hear that you're upset that the article seems to make a strong case against daycare, since you know many people who have grown up in daycare (and/or without the constant attention of their mother) who have certainly not grown up to be sociopaths. Quite the contrary, many have grown up to be perfectly well-adjusted and capable adults. It also bothers you that we have posted this here, sinceGordon Training Internationalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00826019243464690334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-51556084006043271342013-11-01T05:47:38.206-07:002013-11-01T05:47:38.206-07:00This is ridiculous.
Many, many, children go to da...This is ridiculous.<br /><br />Many, many, children go to daycare. They do not grow up to be Adam Lanza.<br /><br />There is no evidence whatsoever that if mothers are not caring for the child around the clock during the first three years, the child turns out to be a sociopath. However, I can give you hundreds of counterexamples of very well-adjusted, successful people I know personally (Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-50944155188604882402013-02-04T10:04:21.007-08:002013-02-04T10:04:21.007-08:00Sorry but you just summed up the problem.
'In...Sorry but you just summed up the problem.<br /><br />'In order to not some ADULT feel guilty or whatever we just shut down a lid on things which might and most likely do damage the CHILD. Screw the child, what about my feelings.'<br /><br />Of course day care is damaging. Can quality daycare lead to RAD - not likely. Can bring other less significant problems? Sure.<br />How would you feelAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-68768626588687112002013-02-03T10:10:47.098-08:002013-02-03T10:10:47.098-08:00This guy never knew adam, he doesn't know what...This guy never knew adam, he doesn't know what his motivations were. He claims to compare and contrast his understandings from SOME kids and presumes to know what Adam's problem was. <br /><br />I have serious problems with this mans story considering we're seeing children as young as 3 put on Prozac, between 3 to 6 having been on 14 different medicines and then diagnosed with Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-4454229711545900252013-02-02T14:41:45.194-08:002013-02-02T14:41:45.194-08:00Did you even read the article? The true cause of R...Did you even read the article? The true cause of RAD is early childhood rejection from the parents. Daycare is one of the modes.<br /><br />Also, your child's daycare experience is the rare exception that proves the rule. Obviously. Are you really so naive to think that your child's experience is that of the everyday child? No, I don't think you really believe this; and yet you still Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-76850506754327079342013-02-02T14:37:42.605-08:002013-02-02T14:37:42.605-08:00Your child's daycare experience is the rare ex...Your child's daycare experience is the rare exception that proves the rule. Obviously. Do you really think that this is the norm for the everyday child? I think you know the obvious answer; and yet you still felt the need to rationalize yourself here, why? Feeling guilty?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-81490875306072773142013-02-02T12:24:02.577-08:002013-02-02T12:24:02.577-08:00Wow this was fantastic and so helpful to me and my...Wow this was fantastic and so helpful to me and my family. Not to mention insight onto the world. I'm checking out the rest of the blog too having consumed this.<br /><br />Just to let you know, I came by it via a reading done by Stefan Molyneux which is on Youtube. The author might be interested in how many hits that gets.<br /><br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&vRickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06315796390662297759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-89570268323263363582013-02-01T08:03:30.223-08:002013-02-01T08:03:30.223-08:00I have to use a daycare 40hrs a week from the time...I have to use a daycare 40hrs a week from the time my child was 2 months old until now (13mos), and we use attachment parenting practices as much as we possibly can. The daycare comments on how strong/healthy/advanced my child is, and of course I see it too. I don't practice contemporary organised religion, but a small lutheran church that provides FT childcare Birth to 8yo is less than 1kmAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-492247029486569322013-02-01T02:16:29.180-08:002013-02-01T02:16:29.180-08:00Garbage ... how the hell do you know if Nancy Lanz...Garbage ... how the hell do you know if Nancy Lanza held her baby? Is it because he behaves like a baby who was never held? You simply can not reconstruct his childhood and the maternal child bond, based on retrospective evidence. This is a product of fantasy. You have pulled this out of your nether regions and the arrogance is appalling. <br /><br />Get over yourself. You have no right to judge Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-58376051385178936102013-01-31T16:52:18.037-08:002013-01-31T16:52:18.037-08:00Please consider LYME DISEASE and the effects this ...Please consider LYME DISEASE and the effects this has on both parent and child . Borreliosis spirochete can be passed congenitally and cause a host of issues like RAD, Autism, ADHD etc. It also causes aural and visual hallucinations and rage. Frontal lobe shut down etc. If we do not start considering brain and blood parasites/ bacteriums for children with these diagnosis we are looking at a totalAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-8184202916377225822013-01-25T22:07:21.688-08:002013-01-25T22:07:21.688-08:00 To the poster with child in daycare -your daycare... To the poster with child in daycare -your daycare center is the exception. Most employ minimum wage workers who are going to do the least work possible. The child will be neglected. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-3988361805991681832013-01-23T20:36:11.506-08:002013-01-23T20:36:11.506-08:00I find it interesting that you mention being in da...I find it interesting that you mention being in daycare too early as a cause. <br />I placed my son in an in-home daycare when he was 10 weeks, I had no choice as I couldn't stop working. I found an in-home daycare in which there are two caregivers (mother/daughter) team. I beleive in attachment parenting and asked that she never let him cry and pick him up when he did. I breastfed until he Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-59121624342640954482013-01-23T19:41:02.345-08:002013-01-23T19:41:02.345-08:00I also wanted to mention an opinion of mine that I...I also wanted to mention an opinion of mine that I've had since Adam's picture was made public and ask for your take on it. Its very insensitive but -Adam's mother looks like she was probably a very attractive woman in her youth, and, alas her son kind of unusual looking. It seems entirely plausible to me that she may not have bonded as well as she might have just based on that. Add Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-86392799285315488692013-01-23T19:26:42.059-08:002013-01-23T19:26:42.059-08:00My personal experiences lead me to believe every t...My personal experiences lead me to believe every thing you wrote is right on the money. As an adult male who has no real love at all for his parents I recognize I'm very near RAD and I strongly suspect its due to the reasons you listed.<br /> One thing though, most recent information I heard was Adam's mother never worked at that school. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-13585296105596394672013-01-22T18:12:19.649-08:002013-01-22T18:12:19.649-08:00Excellent article! Thank you for writing it! This ...Excellent article! Thank you for writing it! This should be front page newsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-37105111539513743622013-01-17T07:55:56.907-08:002013-01-17T07:55:56.907-08:00This may sound strange, but I think my son was bor...This may sound strange, but I think my son was born RAD and I was able to turn him around. When my son came from my wound and the nurse handed him to me, he immediately was pushing me away. I was so pooped out, I asked for my husband to take him from me. I admit, during my pregnancy, I was worried about having a boy. My husband has a history of treating his boys from a previous marriage Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7879454410928889426.post-51784947248947360792013-01-16T21:35:45.856-08:002013-01-16T21:35:45.856-08:00Several interesting ideas. The article would have ...Several interesting ideas. The article would have been better had it been rewritten by someone with a better ability to compose. Lots of sections are nearly unintelligible. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com